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newborns & their creator
by vyckie
bennett
We have a new baby at our house - David "Wesley" Bennett, our
second son and seventh child. You might think that by baby # 7 Mom would be
rather ho-hum: after all, she's probably already nursed more than 6,000 hours,
changed over 20,000 diapers, spent at least 2,000 hours rocking her babies,
witnessed approximately 18,000 chubby-cheeked smiles, and heard well over half a
million sweet baby coos and cries of "Ma-ma!" So when the seventh baby
is born, having already lost several years of sleep, does a Mom-of-Many greet
her new son with a great big YAWN?
Although I've been through this six times before, baby Wesley is the delight
of my heart - in fact, I'm enjoying this little guy more than I did his older
siblings. There is nothing softer than baby cheeks, no sweeter smell than a
freshly bathed infant, no symphony more harmonious than the sound of tiny baby
coos, no earthly pleasure greater than watching a sleeping baby's face - first
frowning and pouting, next smiling - always inviting a mother's tender kiss.
The Bible says of woman: she shall be saved in childbearing. I will not
attempt to address the theological implications of 1 Timothy 2:15 - but it is
clear that childbirth has a profound spiritual impact on every new mother. I
have experienced it seven times - and the spiritual lessons aren't over when
labor is finished. In fact, as I'm enjoying my newborn, I've been thinking about
the Lord almost constantly. Pardon my play on words: but, all I ever need to
know about God I learned from my babies.
Presence:
As a new mom, I don't do a single thing without first considering the baby.
Whether I'm preparing a meal, running errands, working with the older children -
even while I'm sleeping, I am aware of him - where is he at? is he sleeping? is
he safe? does he need me? I make all of my plans with the baby in mind - his
needs come first and my "to do" list is subjected to my primary
responsibility.
Would that I were so careful about God! I must confess, in the midst of my
very full life - seven children, homeschooling, home business, etc., it's too
easy to rush through an entire day without once having paused to consider His
presence - does this please Him? is this what He wants me to do? is He speaking
to me? Lately, He's been shouting at me through my awareness of baby Wesley - I
am convicted that I need to be equally aware of Him in my day-to-day living.
Priorities:
It's incredible how many activities are less important than just being with
my baby and enjoying him. After a good night's rest, Wesley awakens around 6
a.m. with a merry heart and a million smiles. I have never been a morning person
so at 6 a.m. it's quite tempting to roll over and catch a few more winks before
starting another busy day. But one look into his eager eyes and I'm captivated!
He's so happy - and all it takes is one word or look of acknowledgement from me
to start him grinning and cooing, kicking his fat legs and waving his arms in
excitement - he absolutely loves me! How can I turn away? I never do. But even
as I watch his charming baby antics I'm thinking of all that needs to be done
today - really, I should get up and get started. Still, I linger. I don't want
to deprive myself of these delightful moments which can never be recaptured.
How often have I been too tired to keep my daily quiet time? or too busy? I
prefer to sleep a little later and when I do wake up - well, there's just so
many things that must be accomplished! And yet, what precious times of
encouragement and refreshment do I miss when I neglect my Bible and prayer?
The voice of my beloved! behold, he cometh leaping upon the mountains,
skipping upon the hills. ... My beloved spake, and said unto me, Rise up, my
love, my fair one, and come away. (Song of Solomon 2:8,10)
Praise:
I have run out of superlatives to describe my son - cute? precious? sweet? a
little doll? One look into his face and all the adjectives in the human tongue
are entirely inadequate to express my love and admiration for him. I often make
up songs - silly songs, and of course I can't carry a tune - but I can't help
but try to express what I'm feeling in my heart towards this absolutely perfect
little creature. And this creature has a Creator - it completely boggles my mind
to imagine how much greater He must be than His creation.
And Jesus saith unto them, Yea; have ye never read, Out of the mouth of babes
and sucklings thou hast perfected praise? (Mt. 21:16)
Passion:
My husband, Warren, is a great fan of spicy foods. But no matter how hot the
pepper, his taste buds quickly become accustomed and by the 3rd or 4th taco he's
been known to ask, "Did you forget to put jalapeņos on this one?"
It's called the Law of Diminishing Returns - when a person is repeatedly exposed
to a physical / fleshly sensation he soon becomes desensitized and more intense
stimulation is required to evoke the same level of initial response.
Unlike most earthly pleasures, enjoyment of a newborn actually works counter
to the Law of Diminishing Returns. I have a theory that with each baby a woman
nurtures her capacity to love grows. She is in no danger of monotony. Our
worship of God works the same way: the more time we spend with Him, the more we
enjoy spending time with Him - our hearts do not become callous, our minds are
not bored with over-saturation.
In her book, The Life of Prayer, Edith Schaeffer writes, "There
is sufficient of the marvel of His creation to give us cause, we who are His
children through the work of the Lamb, to worship Him and to long to do so in
ways which will let Him know of our trust and love." The marvel of His
creation ... that's my Wesley. My love for him affords me a small glimmer of the
Creator's great and perfect love - all praise be unto Him.

The doldrums? Not hardly! David Wesley Bennett, born March
23, 2003
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