 |
|
marriage
& family: christian or gnostic?
With all the
recent media hype surrounding the upcoming release of the
DaVinci Code movie and the "discovery" of the
so-called Gospel of Judas, the ancient heresy of Gnosticism
is gaining renewed attention. Often the debates are
shrouded in either the high-sounding language of theology
and philosophy or else the Twilight-Zone weirdness of New Age
mystery-speak. Meanwhile, ordinary Dads and Moms are left
scratching our heads wondering what, if anything, all of
this controversy has to do with the day-to-day life of our
families.
Ideas have
consequences. What we believe about God and His dealings
with mankind matter - not just in the heady realm of
intellectualism, but in our homes and on the job as Americans
consistently live out the prevailing worldview which we have
absorbed whether intentionally or not. With this in mind,
let's simplify the debate in everyday terms that regular folk
can readily understand.
Gnosticism is
one of the first false teachings to confront the Early Church.
Gnostic comes from the Greek word "gnosis" from which
we get our English word "knowledge." Although
the specifics of Gnostic teaching are as varied as they are
confusing, at the core of Gnosticism there are six
foundational beliefs which are in direct opposition to Biblical
truth.
1)
Spiritual = Good, Material = Bad
The main
idea, which feeds all other Gnostic faith and
practice is the dualistic belief that the immaterial world is
real, true, noble and good, while the material world (that
which we can experience through our five senses) is base - a
distraction and a hindrance to our true "spiritual"
selves.
In the
Scriptures, the same Greek word (sarx) is used to designate
both the physical body and the sin nature - which are not the
same thing. "Flesh" can refer simply to
the physical body but THE FLESH which "lusteth
against the spirit" (Gal. 5:17) does not equal the
physical body - in fact, this "flesh" is IMMATERIAL
- it is the "sin nature" inherited from Adam.
This "flesh" (sin nature) influences every aspect of
our being including the physical body, but also the emotions,
intellect, imaginations, etc. (Note that there are many sins
that have nothing to do with the body such as idolatry,
gossip, hatred, malice, envy and deceit.) So ... it is
not the physical body, per se, which is at war against
our spiritual well-being.
The Gnostic
heretical view that the "flesh" is the material body
led to a denial that Jesus Christ had a real physical body.
This false concept of flesh has led many people into
asceticism (the practice of austere self-discipline in order
to achieve a "higher" spiritual ideal) and all sorts
of bizarre practices such as living on poles.
Gnostic
dualism is soundly refuted in the first verse and following few
chapters of the book of Genesis. 1) God created the physical
world and 2) He said it was "very good."
In Christianity, the spirit and the body are integrated and
complimentary. The Word became flesh, and Jesus retained
His physical body after the Resurrection - also, the Church is
referred to as the "Body of Christ" - these facts are
in strong opposition to the belief that matter is opposed to
spirit.
What
does this mean for families? A person who views
certain activities such as worship, prayer, Bible study,
devotion, fasting, meditation, etc. as spiritual - while
"worldly affairs" such as their family role (father,
mother, husband, wife), their occupation, civic duties, etc. are
a distraction or hindrance to the spiritual - is a
practical Gnostic.
If a woman
devotes three hours to prayer every morning while her children
are left to scrape together some peanut butter and jelly, we
obviously recognize that she is not being truly spiritual - she
is making a spiritual excuse to escape her God given
responsibilities. When a man spends all of his time
preaching and evangelizing while his wife feels like a widow and
his children are left to their own devices, he may be preaching
the Bible with his words, but he is practicing Gnosticism in his
deeds. If you believe it would be more godly to
pray for our nation than to go to the polls and
cast your vote for righteous leadership, you have fallen for this
devilish deception.
In Jesus'
story of the Good Samaritan, some Gnostic thinking was
evident when the priest observed the traveler beside the
road and passed by. He had spiritual duties
to attend to, and he did not want to render himself unclean,
lest he be prevented from serving before the Lord in the temple.
James was
confronting this same Gnosticism when he said, "Show me
your faith without your works, and I will show you my faith by
my works." (James 2:18) The "works" he
was referring to were very practical, worldly business: "give
them the things which are needed for the body." (v.
16)
A friend
called to ask my advice about whether to bring her children's
great-grandfather from the nursing home where he was wasting
away to be cared for by her and her children in their home. Another Christian
friend had told her this might not be a good idea as she
already didn't have enough time to spend in Bible study and
prayer. "So, is she saying that serving
Jesus as you 'do it unto the least of these' will
interfere with your spiritual growth?" I can't think
of a better example of Gnostic thinking. Put in practical terms,
the answer became apparent as my friend recognized an
opportunity for the Spirit to work through her whole
family to put hands and feet to the love of God in this elderly
man's life.
2)
Secret Knowledge vs. Revealed Truth
Does the Word
of God really offer all things necessary
for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him? Or do
we need to call in The Experts? Sadly, I have witnessed a
pastor referring a Christian couple to "professionals"
because he believed that he was "not equipped" to help
them with their marriage difficulties.
If we can't
find solutions for our families in the Bible, let's not
vainly assume the deficiency is with the Scriptures. The
ability to rightly handle the Word of Truth is not a difficult
skill to acquire - but it does require diligence. God
intended for His Word to be understood and applied very
practically in everyday life.
Disbelief in
the sufficiency of Scripture is frequently manifest in our
desire to make the Bible "relevant" or to get a
"fresh revelation" from God. As Christians, we
know that the passages in our Bibles have a specific, intended
meaning - it is not for us to invent new meaning as we
egotistically attempt to discover "what does this verse
mean TO ME?" Rather, we are to discern what God
intended to communicate and then apply that truth to our
own lives. The difference is subtle, yet tremendous.
3) Independence
vs. Inter-dependence
The Gnostics
were and are a self-absorbed bunch. It's all about ME.
MY personal prayer time. MY personal relationship with
Jesus. What is God saying to ME? How is He moving in
MY life? This is not to say that individual salvation and
spiritual growth are unimportant - but in Christianity, our
devotion to God is expressed in our love of our neighbor.
Throughout the New Testament, we see Paul addressing the Church
as a body and God dealing with entire households.
From the
beginning, our society was built on the ideals of
individualism, self-reliance, and independence. Perhaps
such a revolutionary spirit was necessary for those
times, but is it not true that the same alienating principles
which split millions of immigrant families around the world are
still at work in America today - severing us from our
roots, depriving us of our traditions and customs, isolating us
from extended family support systems?
For the
Gnostic, religion is a solitary journey. Self-knowledge is
equated with knowing God because, to the Gnostic mind, self and
god are one and the same. As Philip J. Lee, author of Against
Protestant Gnostics rightly asks, "If we find God only
through self-awareness, how can the God we find be anything more
or less than a reflection of ourselves?"
4)
Escapism vs. Pilgrimage
Because
Gnostics believe the material world to be an evil obstacle
in their quest for personal piety, adherents to this false spirituality
seek their salvation by transcending, denying, or else escaping,
the trials of life. The Christian, on the other hand, is
seeking a City whose Builder and Maker is God - not
apart from the tribulations which our Savior has promised we
will have. Rather, it is in and through those
very struggles that we are being fitted for Heaven.
In all
likelihood, Wife - God did not gift you to your
apathetic, spiritually-dull husband so that you could straighten
him out. Is he making your life miserable? The
Gnostic solution would be to fly away - perhaps join a Ladies'
Bible study where you can gossip, oops! I mean "pray"
about your troubles, or maybe a Retreat (a rather fitting name,
isn't it?) so that you can hear from God and come back refreshed
and your vision renewed. Don't worry, I am not against
Bible studies, prayer meetings, retreats, conferences, etc.
But the mature Christian woman does not view her husband as an
impediment to her family's spiritual health and well-being.
Rather, your husband's apparent weakness is the very strength of
God to lead your entire household into His glorious presence.
The Christian
pilgrimage is just as practical as it is saintly. Do you
desire to see your husband grow in devotion and godliness?
Pray for him, yes. Post Bible verses on the bathroom
mirror. Listen to Christian radio programming and
definitely search the Scriptures for wisdom. But then, get
up and cook a nutritious meal. Make a budget and stick to
it like he asked you to. Give some attention to your
appearance and provide for his physical desires.
All of this does not guarantee that your husband will respond
with instant spiritual maturity - so don't get discouraged when he
takes it all for granted and doesn't even notice your new
hairdo.
Christian,
don't run away from your problems - embrace them as God's
special plan for your spiritual edification. He knows what
He's doing - trust Him to carry you through the refining fires
and bring you safely out again - spotless, holy, pure as gold.
5)
Elitism vs. the Unenlightened Mass
The ordinary
life of faith is fine for those unsophisticated,
"average" Christians who seek nothing higher than to
serve God and their neighbor. But, Gnostics have much
loftier aspirations. They will settle for nothing less
than total, whole-hearted, sold-out devotion.
In Michael
Pearl's book, By Divine Design, he addresses this
elitist aspect of Gnosticism which goes right along with
the desire for secret knowledge:
All
cultures have their "holy men," seers, prophets,
philosophers, monks, gurus - men who give themselves wholly to
the task of seeking out the "secrets of the
universe." They seek "illumination."
They delve into the "hidden." "To
know" is their goal. This search goes beyond
science. It is a journey within as well as a journey to
the outer limits. One neglects his humanity for a chance
at deity. Those who reach the higher plane, their
nirvana, would rather associate with the spirits than to
resume their duties among mortals. The pride they feel
as a result of this "enlightenment" often puts them
beyond religious correction. Being in touch with the
gods, they have become unteachable where it concerns mere
mortals.
If you are involved
with someone whose Gnostic thinking has progressed to this
stage, you have my sympathy. Doesn't this person remind
you of an arrogant teen? Maybe, the elitist Gnostic in
your life IS an all-knowing, smarter-than-you'll-ever-be teen.
Thankfully, reality has a way of humbling most of us and
eventually we begin to appreciate the simple,
old-fashioned faith of our fathers.
Where is
the wise man? Where is the scholar? Where is the philosopher
of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?
... Not many of you were wise by human standards; not
many were influential; not many were of noble birth. But God
chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God
chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. He
chose the lowly things of this world and the despised
things--and the things that are not--to nullify the things
that are, so that no one may boast before him. (I Cor. I:
20, 26-29)
As with all
false doctrine, Gnosticism is the "vanity of vanities"
which eventually drags its disciples to the depths of
despair. In that system, the world and all that is in it
is nothing but chaos - the very atmosphere in which we
breathe and the lungs which receive that air are irreparably
infused with evil. The Gnostic who looks inward
instead of upward in his search for meaning quickly finds
himself alienated not only from the natural world, but also from
God, his neighbor, and ironically, even from himself.
Contrast this
gloomy mood of the Gnostics with the hopeful
expectation of Divine Providence - as Christians, we
believe that God is good and He is in control.
Christian
praise and thanksgiving express our optimism
which springs from rightly understanding the connection between
creation and redemption. God could have given us only one
kind of flower, or even none at all. We certainly don't need
those glorious sunsets or all the colors in the rainbow. Anyone
who has watched The March of the Penguins must be
awed at God's extravagance even in the South Pole where no-one
lives to witness the amazing works of His hands. His
generosity and grace are evident in the Creation.
Likewise, our
Heavenly Father didn't have to send His Only Son to ransom us
from the eternal separation which we all deserve. But His
mercy doesn't stop at merely rescuing us from the Pitt - Jesus lavishes His disciples with abundant
life and a blessed eternity in His glorious presence. Our
response must be one of humility and inexpressible
gratitude.
When I
consider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers, the moon and the
stars, which thou hast ordained; What is man, that thou art
mindful of him? ...O LORD our Lord, how excellent is thy name in
all the earth! (Psalm 8:3,9)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
|
 |
 |